Expert dementia support — nurse-led, compassionate, and tailored to your family. Based in Northumberland and available across the wider North East by phone, video, or home visit.
About DemNurse
Meet Amy Holtom
Amy is a Registered Nurse (RGN) and the founder of DemNurse, registered with the Nursing and Midwifery Council (NMC). After years working in dementia care across the NHS and private sector, she saw families struggling to find clear, compassionate guidance when they needed it most.
DemNurse was created to fill that gap, offering practical, nurse-led support for families, carers, and individuals affected by dementia. Whether you need help understanding a diagnosis, navigating care options, or simply want someone who listens, Amy is here.
“No two journeys are the same. My role is to walk alongside you, offering the knowledge and support you need, when you need it.”
Services
How Amy Can Help
Whether you are at the start of your journey or need ongoing support, there is a service to suit you.
Services are being updated. Please check back soon or contact Amy directly.
Transparency
Understanding Our Specialist Support
Nurse-led dementia guidance for families in Northumberland and the wider North East. Dementia changes everything — often before anyone feels ready. At DemNurse, we are often invited into people's lives at moments of worry, uncertainty, or exhaustion. We take that responsibility seriously.
Why We Charge for This Service
We operate as an independent nursing consultancy to ensure you receive the time and expertise you deserve.
You are paying for direct access to a Registered Nurse with years of clinical experience in both the NHS and private sectors.
Unlike overstretched public services, we provide the space to talk things through properly. We offer a consistent point of contact who truly knows your story.
We are not part of the NHS, a care home, or an agency. This allows us to give honest, unbiased guidance focused solely on what is right for your family.
Timely, expert advice can prevent costly emergency decisions, reduce carer burnout, and help your loved one stay at home for longer.
You might be wondering
“Shouldn’t this be available for free?”
While the NHS is vital for medical diagnosis, it is often limited in providing the day-to-day navigation families need. DemNurse fills the gap, offering high-level attention without the waiting lists.
“Is this instead of care services?”
No. Care agencies help with doing tasks (like washing or cooking). DemNurse helps with understanding — from managing changing behaviours to navigating the complex social care system.
“What if we only need a little help?”
That is completely fine. You can start with a single session. There is no pressure to commit to more than you feel you need.
Our Core Promise
We charge because every dementia journey is unique, and navigating it safely requires skill, care, and presence. Our aim is never to pressure, but to provide the clarity you need to move forward with confidence.
Amy Holtom
Registered Nurse (RGN) & Founder of DemNurse · NMC Registered
What Families Say
Real Stories from Real Families
One of my relatives has dementia and it has been a tangle of worries to work through. The original diagnosis is scary and daunting, so navigating how to process everything is completely overwhelming. Delighted to see that you have launched this one to one service in Northumberland.
— Claire B
I wish this service had been available when Mum was going through it. Having the same person to talk to each time would have made everything feel so much easier.
— Dave S
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Why families choose DemNurse
Nurse-led support tailored to your family, without the waiting lists or generic scripts.
Nurse-led, not agency-led
Registered General Nurse (RGN), NMC Registered, with dementia experience across the NHS and private care.
Confidential and GDPR compliant
Everything you share stays private. Never shared without your explicit consent.
Local to Northumberland
Home visits across Northumberland, plus phone and video for anywhere in the wider North East.
No pressure, no obligation
Start with a free call. You decide if and how you would like to work together after that.
Ready when you are
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Every Dementia
Journey is different
Common questions
Who is DemNurse for?
DemNurse is for anyone affected by dementia — whether you are a family carer or a person living with a diagnosis.
How does the free call work?
Book a 10-minute slot online. Amy will call you at your chosen time to listen to your situation and suggest practical next steps.
Is everything confidential?
Absolutely. Your information is protected under GDPR and will never be shared without your explicit consent.
Do I need a referral?
No referral is needed. You can book directly through the website or contact Amy by phone or email.
Support & Resources
Useful Organisations
We work alongside trusted organisations who provide additional support for carers and families across the region.
More organisations will be added here. If you know of a resource that would benefit families, please get in touch with Amy.